Wednesday, May 18, 2011

7 weeks 2 days!

I woke up this morning and I finally feel in a really good space to post again!
Firstly-thank you for all of the supportive comments- unfortunately with all of the strange stuff that went on with Blogger a week ago, some of the comments only showed up on my email, but have been lost from my blogpost. So thanks to Krista, Bridget, Babyhopes2003, Michele, and aliciapartridge for your lovely comments-I was able to read them on my email but I'm sorry they aren't on my post for some reason!

So my week has been fairly uneventful actually, which is all rather boring but also great. No more bleeding thank goodness and I've spent an embarrassing amount of time in my bed reading books and magazines, as well as being waited on by G. The first few days after that bleed were quite hard and I found myself becoming quite anxious in the evenings, scared that I would wake up to that same awful feeling again. But that scenario never eventuated so I'm starting to relax back into feeling positive and pregnant again.

We seem to have something on every week that helps the time go a little faster and offers some reassurance. This week I have had another BT which came back fine, and we also met our midwife who is just lovely and made us feel very relaxed and confident that we will be well looked after. We'll be seeing her again in 2 weeks. Next week we have our 8 week scan at the Fertility Clinic, and I've also been having weekly acupuncture which helps to relax me and is nice just for a bit of peace of mind.

In the midst of all of this my mum has just started her Chemotherapy. My dad and I went with her to the Cancer Centre yesterday while she was hooked up to some quite scary looking bags of drugs! One had bright red liquid in it which we now refer to as 'rasberry juice',and the other clear bag is the 'lemonade'.(yes-as though we are 5 year olds...!) It sounds a lot nicer than the real names which I wouldn't know how to pronounce anyway. While mum had a nap, Dad and I spent some dad&daughter time together went and scoured the second-hand shops and hardware store, and then got pies for lunch before going back and picking up mum who was almost done.
All in all the actual 3 hours of treatment she had wasn't as bad as she thought, but by the time we got home she was starting to feel the effects already. Dry mouth and sore stomach, and a bit of nausea-she joked that she was feeling pregnant along with me!Hopefully she wont suffer the effects too badly, but she's well prepared with a wig for the inevitable hair loss over the next few weeks.

So now I feel like I need to get myself back into some normal living again. I have some work to do which has been on the backburner for 2 weeks, as well as my own projects. A super long merino top I want to make with some fabric I bought a month ago, and I also want to convert a couple of pairs of my jeans into some form of maternity wear. I'm nowhere near showing, but with complete lack of exercise and twice my normal appetite, lets just say the top buttons are being extra stubborn about meeting the button holes. So I figure I may as well get a head start!

11 comments:

  1. Lovely to hear that all is going well for you and no more bleeding. Acupuncture is great... makes such a difference :) Hope your mum's chemo is going OK... such a huge thing to go through and so many side-effects, but worth it in the long run. My thoughts and wishes are with you both. Love always xoxo

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  2. Glad your going along much better and there is no more bleeding to report.

    Hope the Chemo isn't too horrible for your mum - sounds like she has lots of love and support around her during this hard time.

    Good luck with the jean conversions!

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  3. glad your back on track, and hope all is going well with your mum.

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  4. It's good to hear things have settled down. I hope your mum isn't feeling too bad. It is great that you guys have such a close family to support her (and you) through it all.

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  5. Congrats on the pregnancy, glad no more bleeding.. and Hope you mum goes well.
    Im your newest follower form over at love that moves the stars. xx

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  6. I hope your mom pulls through all of these treatments, I know this must be a scary time for you and your family. I am so glad to hear you haven't had any more bleeding and are haiving some time to relax. Congrats on 7 weeks!

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  7. I am so happy that you are doing well. Pepe is holding on tight to his mommy, and that you love your midwife! Rest as much as you want do NOt feel guilty about it. We do what we must to to ensure the safety of the babe. If that means being waited on hand and foot....then you just have to take it for the team. :0)

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  8. Glad things are going well for you and I'm keeping your mom in my thoughts and prayers.

    I say just tell her to go ahead and shave her head. It's the one time in a woman's life that it's acceptable. AND I've always wanted to do it, but am just to scared and think that I would look like a cue ball. But if it's going to fall out anyway, I say chop it all off. Do a Mohawk first or something crazy! If she does a Mohawk though, you have to take pictures.

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  9. I'm so glad things are getting better!!!

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  10. So relieved to read you haven't had anymore scares and you're starting to relax into your pregnancy a bit more again and not feel quite so anxious.

    I hope your mum doesn't get the side effects too badly with her chemo. When my mums hair started to fall out we ended up shaving it off so she could wear the wigs, as having clumps of hair coming out was more upsetting to her than just getting rid of it. We also had a wig party where a lady who supplied them came over and we had a few drinks and nibbles and she tried them all on. Silly I know, but we needed to do something to lighten it up. Sounds like your mum is in good spirits though but it makes me really teary to read what she has to go through and I just hope it is over soon and she will be in full remission. She has you and a precious grandchild to look forward to though! xox

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  11. I'm so very, very happy that things are well with your pregnancy! Thinking of you and your family and hoping your mom is well soon...

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